Justified mistake

How far will you go just to win a friend? How eager are you to hide your own mistakes just to accuse a supernatural belief? And how desperate are you to blame your physical weaknesses?

These are just the questions that keeps boggling my mind every time those people post their pathetic shout-outs on social networking sites. Maybe you are thinking also the same question; WHY?

• SPARK-FIRE-FLAMES

I have been so tired of listening different versions of the story and the worst is, it never ended in a simple exchange of dialogues but instead, had it done in cyber space, the Internet. The story started with a simple so called "joke", exchange of text messages, then BOOM!!! It started as a slight spark that eventually ignited into fire and soon to a huge flame. The situation can be handled if they just talked then settled the issue as soon as possible, but due to differences, they decided to extend the agony through their prides.

The team was starting to falter and was trying to cope with the situation that many had thought that it will just come into pass. But it was just a start of bigger and a much complicated one.

• Neutrally Bias
  

I am a neutral person who doesn't take sides on certain issues, thus I gave my own opinion and ideas in solving small issues. I have been to many groups and jobs, and experience is my best teacher that had molded me to be a better person. But in other cases, you really cannot teach old dogs to learn new tricks, isn't it? The issue was so simple, it's all about personal differences and the answer is just too simple as well, it is called acceptance.

• Supernatural

This is not about the TV series but it is all about the second chapter of the previous issue that made me so blown that lead me to conclusion, it was all about sorcery. How in the world that the cause of its severe oral sores and its seizures were from black magic and sorcery? At first, I was into a make believe situation and was shocked on why a certain friend can do that. I made a distance from her and even changed my profile name on Facebook because I was afraid that I might be the next victim of this sorcery thing.

I was hesitant to her offers, like food, drinks etc. until I asked myself, why am I doing this to her and judged her as to be someone whom was never been different to me. And everything went into revelation.

• Division of the house

This was a tough decision to make, to whom will I stand? the -chosen few- or the -selected ones-.. But I chose to be chosen by the few than to be selected by people who categorizes their friends. I finally found people who criticizes me the most than making fun of me, because these are the people whom are true, criticizes you NOT because that they are perfect but they want you to improve out of something you lack. They are not "user-friendly" friends that only manipulates your weaknesses to take their own advantage.

• COLD WAR

The issue was not yet resolved even it reached to the higher authorities, but instead, it made an avenue for competition. It was all about, hearsay, back-fights, and gossips. They even accused her to have made sorcery as a result of the hospitalization of one of them which happens to be diagnosed by her doctor as asthma. Most of the times were dirty tactics, unhealthy competition that even lead to selfish working habits. I almost wanted to give up because of the working environment that its not too friendly to see and experience, but why I should be affected when my purpose is to work.

And now, the war has not yet stopped but eventually reached to the internet where they claimed as they were on the right side and God will be with them.

• "Good things happen to good people"

As a conclusion to this never ending accusations and cold wars, I will address this to those people who were affected and also to the "too affected" ones. This is a all about pride, and nothing but pride, plus the fact that there are also people who want to take advantage of the situation.

You feared God the most right? But where is your faith to God? It turned out that your faith was washed out by those fortune-tellers whom you consulted first before your creator. How in the world that you can accuse a person for doing such a thing as sorcery, when there was a diagnosis from a doctor. Are you afraid of the reality that it was not anymore normal but a symptom of a greater infection?

Why can't you tell everybody that it was really sorcery that happened to your misfortunes in life? Are you afraid that the issue is too sensitive or maybe not everybody will not believe you or just laugh about it or the worst is, would know about your real identity?

Why you have to accuse somebody just to convince that you are really a friend? It's evidently that you are loosing people because of being a blabbermouth. You tend to make statements that was not even uttered by the person. But when you are confronted, you tend to deny it and upbraid your self acclaimed kindness.

As I don't want to be in the issue, I have been part of it since the accusations started. I don't care if you say that I should mind my own business and not your own prerogative, because accusing a person is NOT also your prerogative but by God. I know where I should stand, and that is knowing the right thing.